Challenge arises from the desire to have better. When you desire to have better, you present an immediate threat to your existing identity. This may cause conflict. But the conflict is not to be lamented because it stops you from doing what you want to do, it is to be embraced because it provides you with a vehicle for the development of your strength. It provides you with the opportunity to use your natural positive attributes, simply by allowing them, to have more moments of peace and happiness.

In essence, these conflicts allow you the opportunity to become happy...