Many will argue that you are responsible for some aspects of life and not others. It is also without question that other people will define different areas which they acknowledge fall under their control and those which do not. In fact, every individual might create a different rule for the areas of their life that are controlled by them and those that are not.
This poses a rather difficult question... What is the truth?
Just what is the percentage of control and not-control in your life?
In this case, the truth is simple. It is black and white. There are no degrees, no in-between. Either you are with child or you are not with child. You are wearing red or you are not. You are responsible or not responsible. One hundred percent. Total commitment to one or the other.